Jan 4, 2014

Valentine’s Day Traditions: Come and Go

Different ways of celebrating Valentine’s Day have emerged through time.  It has created a variety of traditions that are practiced in varying countries. Some have been forgotten, some are not.

The history of card giving in the United States has changed starting from  the Civil War to what is practiced today. There were times when cards contain cruel and rude humor. Although, many cards have patriotic and political designs like images showing lovers, heroes, and generals. Nowadays, Internet have modified the way people give cards—through email. Customized designs for various occasions like Valentine’s Day are available for email messages. There are those with built songs and recorded messages. Some cards are even three-dimensional. Home-made cards are also given especially to lovers and parents.

While the traditions of United States have changed due to changing politics and technology, the Spring Festival of Italy just ceased. Before, this festival is held in the open area where the young would gather in an ornamental garden and listen to music and poetry reading. Couples in the City of Turin also used to announce their engagement on this day. Today, it is just part of an ancient history.

The Festival of Lupercalia in also an ancient tradition. It was held every February 14. A day before the Lupercalia, Roman women would honor Juno, the Queen and goddess of marriage and women in Roman mythology. On the day of the festival, they would write love letters and put it in a large urn. The men would then choose a love letter and pursue the woman who authored the chosen letter.  It is believed that Valentine’s Day originated from this pagan festival.

In Australia, there were extravagant Valentine’s Day celebration. Miners who had newly found gold from the Ballarat mines were willing to spend on expensive and elaborate Valentine’s Day celebration. Australian merchants could send orders worth thousands of pounds. Valentine’s Day cards were made of satin cushion, designed with flowers, colored shells, and perfumed. Sometimes, these cards would even have humming birds or birds of paradise. These things were put in an expensive ornamented box.

There are traditions however that stayed in some countries like Germany and Denmark.

Some German traditions on Valentine’s Day are being practiced until now. The man usually gives flowers to the one they love on February 14. People also give love tokens with lovely messages. Although, this can be done on ordinary day. Generally, people give flowers and chocolates on this day.

In Denmark, the Valentine’s Day card is also known as the lover’s card. A transparent card that is when held up to the light shows a picture of a lover handing gift to his love.

Valentine’s Day in Denmark is celebrated by giving poems and candy snowdrops. Danish people also send funny love notes. These love notes are called gaekkebrev. It also refers to joking letters. On this letter, the sender signs his name in dots and if the receiver guesses correctly, the sender gets a candy egg at Easter time.

Jan 28, 2013

Tips For A Successful Valentine's Date

Dating, especially on romantic occasions such as Valentine's Day, is probably one of the most exciting yet daunting adventures any single individual might ever encounter. Traditional dating—meeting up, going out and eating out—with somebody you are interested with can be a challenge as well as a learning experience for everyone.

More than the women, men feel more pressured when going out on a date specially on Valentine's Day because they are expected to do almost everything to make the date a success. Since they are the ones who will carry out most of the so-called “dating tasks” here are some tips that can help men go through with the exciting process of dating the girl they are interested with.

- CLEALINESS. Ensure cleanliness by keeping on eye on your hygiene and style. The worst thing any man can do is to turn up on a date smelling, unshaven, and looking dirty so the first thing you should do is to take a bath, brush your teeth, and shave those stubborn stubbles. Men who do not know how to maintain hygiene are no-nos for the more hygienic sex. So it pays to spray on some decent cologne and gargle before you meet up with your date.

- LOOK NICE. Dress up to look your best. Looking your best when you go out on a Valentine's date gives the idea that you have prepared for the special occasion even if it’s only a first date. If you don’t have enough dough to buy new shoes or clothes, at least try to wear those decent ones to impress your date.

- TIME MATTERS/ The first impression of women is usually based on how much men value their time. If you ask a woman on a date, make sure that you can turn up on time because not doing so will give her the impression that you don’t value your word. If you don’t want your date to think you are unreliable, try be early or at least on time when going out on a date.

- ISSUES ON BILLS. The general rule in dating is that whoever asks for that date should pay for it. Since you are the one who asked for and you are the man, then, by all means, you should pay the bill. But if the idea of your paying for the entire bill does not sit well to the woman you’re dating and she insists paying for her own, make a compromise. Suggest that she pays the half and you’ll pay for the rest.

- BEING A GENTLEMAN PAYS. Simple things that show your gentleness like holding the door open for her, letting her walk through the door first, and pulling out a chair for her will definitely make an impact on her. Showering her compliments throughout the day will also make her think that you appreciate her efforts of looking good for the date.

Remember, people need conform the rules whether they like it or not. In the case of dating specially during Valentine's Day, there's no harm in following these simple rules should to ensure success for both parties.

Apr 15, 2012

Choose Gifts Appropriate to Your Relationship

For the New Relationship: You're interested in them, but don't want to be presumptuous. What to do? Consider dropping a hint. Asking what he/she would like for Valentine's Day is a subtle way to let them know that you will be getting something for them. For this relationship, the gifts should be light-hearted – not too sappy as to scare them away. A Cookie Bouquet delivered, a Giant Fortune Cookie with your personalized message inside, dinner & a movie or a DVD are good choices.
For the Long-term Relationship: For this relationship, you have more choices - romantic, sexy and humorous gifts can all be choices. You can afford to have a little fun with this relationship to get your point across. For the more risque gifts, choices include romantic games, chocolate body paint, and lover's coupons. You might even go so far as to learn the art of exotic dancing to please your partner. And for the more traditional, jewelry is always welcomed. If you can't afford rubies, garnets show your love in red splendor and are very affordable.
For the Spouse: Valentine's Day is a real test of how much you want to keep romance alive in your relationship. So be sure to acknowledge one another lest one of you is disappointed. Choose a gift to help rekindle the passion in your relationship such as a trip for the two of you. Can't travel? Then just do something together – an experience gift such as a couples massage, a wine tasting or even sky diving for the more adventurous. And, most important, no kids allowed!
For the Secret Admirer: Valentine's Day is the perfect opportunity to woo the object of your affections by sending anonymous gifts in hopes of a real relationship. Be careful with your choice of gift as not to create fear – you don't want to end up with a restraining order! Keep the sentiments light. And, if you are sending an anonymous gift to someone's office, make it "super-sized" – a bouquet of balloons, a large teddy bear or long stem roses. Remember, with a gift sent to the office, you're not only making a statement to your recipient, but also potentially impressing her/his colleagues – which can score you some points!

Alternative Greeting Cards

No longer do you have to "say it with a card!" Greeting cards remain popular as a way to express sentiments to loved ones. However, there are gifts that serve as alternatives to greeting cards. Cookies can be personalized or actually used to spell out a message for your loved one. Everyday products like soap can be personalized with a message and photo for your recipient. When a greeting card is not enough, gifts like these will be remembered.
Remember, for Valentine's Day, the best present of all is you! As long as the gift you send has meaning, it will be cherished. Valentine’s Day can be anything you want it to be - from romantic to fun. So show a little creativity in your gift-giving and enjoy your special day!

Apr 13, 2012

Valentine's Day Shopping Tips for the Ladies

  • Think like a man! Many men do not really want a gift, what they want is you! If your man fits into this category, you can have a lot of fun with Valentine’s Day. You might consider giving him a teaser gift (if appropriate for your relationship), like lingerie – not for him, but for you to wear for him.
  • Does your guy have a great sense of humor? Humorous gifts go over well with the guys. There are many humorous and fun gifts available online for Valentine’s Day – from Valentine’s Day toilet paper that says, “I love you from top to bottom!”, to innocent looking teddy bears that talk naughty. These gifts can spice up your Valentine's Day celebration.

Apr 10, 2012

Valentine's Day Shopping Tips for the Men

Guys, beware! Show that you put some thought into your choice of gift. This can make or break a relationship. Your significant other will be looking for a clue as to the message you are sending through your gift. Think romance! To most ladies, Valentine's Day is the day their man acknowledges his affection/love (depending on the stage of your relationship) for her. If this doesn't happen, she could be greatly disappointed.
Don't Do
  • No flowers in plastic sheaths – this has grocery store/procrastination written all over it! If you purchase flowers, present them a vase.
  • Avoid Lingerie unless she has pointed it out. Lingerie for Valentine's Day is never for her, but rather for you. If you do go this route, save her the humiliation of trying it on if it isn't quite right.
  • Be careful not to sabotage her diet with excessive gifts of chocolate.
  • Humorous gag gifts can be great Valentine's Day fun, but don’t go so far as to embarrass your loved one.
  • Clothes is usually not be the best choice, but If you choose to give apparel, do your homework!! Make sure to buy the correct size and style. Don't buy a smaller size as not to offend her – it makes for an awkward situation when it doesn't fit. Also, many ladies have favorite colors and colors they avoid when it comes to clothing, find out her best colors.
  • Avoid the practical. Even if you know she really wants that new kitchen appliance, don't go there for Valentine's Day! Valentine's Day is about celebrating your relationship.
  • Send something! Don't let the day pass you by - if you don't acknowledge her on Valentine's Day, someone else might.
  • Make sure the gift is appropriate for your relationship and is sending the right message.
  • A gift you make yourself customized for your special someone will guarantee success. Test your creativity and create a personalized piece of jewelry.
  • Be yourself! Don't send a mushy gift if that is totally out of character for you. There are many choices for Valentine's Day to suit your gifting style.
  • Shop Now! Procrastination increases your stress level and decreases your creativity. Not a good combination! Waiting until the last minute will increase your chances of sending the wrong message, and that, will get you in trouble every time. You can save valuable time by getting ideas and shopping online.

Apr 3, 2011

Ideas for Husband's Birthday

He is the most important person in your life; yet you are clueless, how to make him happy on his birthday! If this is your story, then read on for some interesting ideas for your husband's birthday.
Birthdays are a time for fun and frolic, no matter the age! Planning for a husband's birthday gift in the initial years of marriage may seem like a difficult task for a wife. With time, however, once a wife gets the hang of her partner's likes and dislikes, planning for a birthday gift or a surprise will be relatively easy! Have you ever got the feeling that your husband already has all the things you can possibly present him? Or perhaps, not being able to gauge his tastes, makes things even more difficult. Women out to make their husband's birthday a memorable event, can take a look at these ideas to make his day really special.

Ideas for Husband's Birthday:
The main essence of marriage may get lost when a couple gets really busy with their individual professional life. Women...please note in this case, you need to firstly allot enough time for your husband and plan his birthday. Have you both been too involved with work lately? Have you felt that romance has been missing due to the daily grind? Use your husband's birthday as a chance to revive the feelings that have been lost over the years! Plan for a special trip package. Is he the outdoorsy type of a person? Does he love the mountains or the beach? Look for special getaway plans with travel agents, or surprise him in the morning with a passionate kiss. Arm yourself with a picnic basket and head off to your secret destination. Please leave all the excess baggage of work issues behind.

There are times when you may feel you are stuck with a 'Mr. Impossible'. If you cannot really decide the kind of gift to buy, why not opt for a gift basket! Gift baskets are easily available at any of the gift shops. However, a homemade gift basket would be an even better idea. Here, you can shortlist your own choice of gift items that should be included into the basket. Men and their love for gadgets is nothing new to any woman. Make a collection of the gadgets he really needs. An iPod or even an accessory for his car will bring a smile on his face. Collect these gifts and arrange them in a basket. Cover with a cellophane and tie a beautiful red bow. Voila! Your basket is ready to be gifted.

When was the last time your husband pampered himself? Why not give him a gift certificate for a spa and maybe, even you can join him and get pampered together at the hands of an expert. If spas are not really his idea of relaxation, you can opt to be his spa expert at home. Make his day really special by giving him a soothing massage. A candle-lit, home cooked meal for the night is the best way to conclude the day. Turn on soft lights and play some romantic songs. Dress up in your best attire. Pop the champagne and have a romantic time at home. He will surely treasure this moment forever.

Plan a treasure hunt. Drop clues that he needs to decipher. Watch the excitement, as he struggles to locate his birthday gift. Along with the gift, leave a handwritten note that describes what he means to you. Pour out all your thoughts and feelings on the paper. This is one emotional birthday he will cherish for years to come. Sharing your innermost thoughts in the form of a love letter or a poem, is a priceless gift you can give, rather than something bought off the shelf.

Make your husband's birthday a special one with these ideas. I am sure, you will have loads of fun. Best of luck!
By Kashmira Lad
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